{"id":9107,"date":"2023-11-24T11:02:21","date_gmt":"2023-11-24T08:02:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=9107"},"modified":"2023-11-24T11:02:27","modified_gmt":"2023-11-24T08:02:27","slug":"radiografia-minata-a-cuplului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=9107","title":{"rendered":"Radiografia minat\u0103 a cuplului"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"727\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Maud-Ventura.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9108\" style=\"width:400px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Maud-Ventura.jpg 727w, https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Maud-Ventura-218x300.jpg 218w, https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Maud-Ventura-480x660.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 727px) 100vw, 727px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>\u00cen general, \u00een via\u021b\u0103, dar \u0219i \u00een operele de fic\u021biune, dup\u0103 un num\u0103r de ani, tensiunea sentimentalo-erotic\u0103 a unui cuplu scade exponen\u021bial \u0219i previzibil. Iat\u0103 c\u0103 romanul <em>Mon mari\/So\u021bul meu <\/em>de Maud Ventura (L\u2019Iconoclaste, Paris) prezint\u0103 o situa\u021bie insolit\u0103: so\u021bia \u00ee\u0219i iube\u0219te la fel so\u021bul, chiar dup\u0103 15 ani. E un jurnal al unei fixa\u021bii bizare, incredibile, \u00eenc\u00e2t cititorul devine circumspect, atent s\u0103 nu serveasc\u0103 o \u201ecapcan\u0103\u201d sau un discurs ironic extrem de bine escamotat. E primul roman al autoarei, repede premiat cu <em>Prix du premier roman<\/em>, tradus imediat \u00een c\u00e2teva \u021b\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cartea e ordonat\u0103 pe criteriul zilelor s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nii, a\u0219adar exist\u0103 \u0219apte mari capitole. Naratoarea e con\u0219tient\u0103 de pasiunea ei devorant\u0103 pentru so\u021bul frumos, elegant, prezentabil, dar distant. \u00cel suspecteaz\u0103 de tr\u0103dare, spioneaz\u0103 tot, \u00eei controleaz\u0103 buzunarele, telefonul, laptopul. Nu descoper\u0103 nimic, dar simte briza unui mister. Se str\u0103duie\u0219te s\u0103 nu-l sufoce cu sentimentalisme. El nu trebuie s\u0103 intuiasc\u0103 vibra\u021biile ei toxice, zbaterea cotidian\u0103 maladiv\u0103. \u00cenregistreaz\u0103 conversa\u021biile matinale, ca s\u0103 le reasculte \u00een singur\u0103tate, s\u0103 deceleze ceva am\u0103nunt revelator, con\u0219tient\u0103, ca mul\u021bi al\u021bii, c\u0103 diavolul se ascunde \u00een detalii. Scopul ei: s\u0103 men\u021bin\u0103 iubirea. Ar vrea s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 pe o insul\u0103 doar cu el, chiar f\u0103r\u0103 copii, s\u0103 nu-l \u00eempart\u0103 cu nimeni, s\u0103 realizeze un <em>&nbsp;t\u00eate-\u00e0-t\u00eate<\/em><em> <\/em>perpetuu cu el. \u00cel iube\u0219te, apoi \u00eel critic\u0103, subliniaz\u0103 defecte, nu-i suport\u0103 naivitatea, apoi sufer\u0103 zile \u00een \u0219ir, deoarece el a comparat-o cu o&#8230; clementin\u0103. La un moment dat, \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103, de fapt, ea vrea s\u0103 opreasc\u0103 iner\u021bia, monotonia, ofilirea rela\u021biei. Normal c\u0103 orice convie\u021buire cotidian\u0103 erodeaz\u0103 pasiunea. El nu mai vibreaz\u0103 \u00een prezen\u021ba ei \u2013 \u201ecum i-am devenit at\u00e2t de familiar\u0103 ?\u201d \u2013 se \u00eentreab\u0103 ea. Sosirea lui acas\u0103 \u00eei provoac\u0103 acelea\u0219i emo\u021bii: \u201ec\u00e2nd intr\u0103 \u00een camer\u0103, las deoparte cartea, sting televizorul \u0219i sunt la dispozi\u021bia lui\u201d. \u00cen timpul insomniilor, ea e fericit\u0103, \u0219tiind c\u0103 \u201evia\u021ba \u00een cuplu modific\u0103 ritmul biologic\u201d, \u00eenc\u00e2t ei respir\u0103 la unison.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deodat\u0103&#8230; o surpriz\u0103 de propor\u021bii, nu ne vine s\u0103 credem! Ziua de joi e \u201eziua tr\u0103d\u0103rii\u201d, c\u00e2nd ea merge la hotel cu c\u00e2te un amant. Exact: din iubire pentru so\u021bul ei. Ca s\u0103 domoleasc\u0103 presiunea ei amoroas\u0103 ce apas\u0103 asupra so\u021bului. S\u0103-\u0219i \u00eembl\u00e2nzeasc\u0103 obsesia, s-o repartizeze la mai multe persoane. Fascina\u021bia ei se na\u0219te din personalitatea lui, din felul de a vorbi, din frumuse\u021be. Chiar dac\u0103 exist\u0103 nepotriviri: el prefer\u0103 s\u00e2mb\u0103ta, ea lunea. Ea nu suport\u0103 storurile trase, dar el nu cedeaz\u0103 la preferin\u021bele ei, nu-i pune \u00eentreb\u0103ri, o s\u0103rut\u0103 cu ochii deschi\u0219i etc. Ea, cu \u201ecreierul \u00eendr\u0103gostit\u201d, analizeaz\u0103 totul printr-o lup\u0103 imperfect\u0103, necru\u021b\u0103toare. C\u00e2nd o vede dezbr\u0103cat\u0103, mai vibreaz\u0103 el ca prima oar\u0103? \u2013 se \u00eentreab\u0103 ea&#8230; \u201edup\u0103 c\u00e2\u021bi ani se \u0219terge magia? Ce uzeaz\u0103 nuditatea? De ce scriu c\u0103r\u021bi despre adulter \u0219i divor\u021b?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deodat\u0103, el o anun\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 discute ceva important. Ea se sperie, e sigur\u0103 c\u0103 el vrea divor\u021bul, c\u0103 e\u0219afodajul cedeaz\u0103, c\u0103, probabil, el a descoperit carnetul ei ascuns. Va fi ultima discu\u021bie? Separarea? Niciodat\u0103 n-a\u0219 fi intuit finalul, pe care nu am dreptul s\u0103-l devoalez. Epilogul mi-a r\u0103sturnat toate presupunerile \u0219i o alt\u0103 lumin\u0103 s-a rev\u0103rsat asupra personajelor. Sper din tot sufletul s\u0103 fie tradus romanul \u00een rom\u00e2ne\u0219te. Cuplul \u2013 o tem\u0103 peren\u0103, incitant\u0103, mereu remodelat\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cartea str\u0103in\u0103 de Alexandru Jurcan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":208,"featured_media":9108,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[550,52],"tags":[1417,551,1906],"coauthors":[1416],"class_list":["post-9107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cartea-straina","category-rubrici","tag-alexandru-jurcan","tag-cartea-straina","tag-nr-7-8-9-2023"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Maud-Ventura.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/208"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9107"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9107\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9109,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9107\/revisions\/9109"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/9108"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9107"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcoauthors&post=9107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}