{"id":4564,"date":"2022-06-08T17:53:06","date_gmt":"2022-06-08T14:53:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=4564"},"modified":"2022-06-08T17:53:16","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T14:53:16","slug":"aurora-liiceanu-fericirea-este-ceva-intamplator%ef%bf%bc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=4564","title":{"rendered":"Aurora Liiceanu: \u201eFericirea este ceva \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor\u201d\ufffc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Invitat\u0103 \u00een podcastul <strong>Cronicari Digitali<\/strong>, realizat de Zaga Brand \u0219i Asocia\u021bia Humart, Aurora Liiceanu \u00eei m\u0103rturise\u0219te jurnalistei Diana Popescu c\u0103 exit\u0103 un \u201enecaz al pshilogului\u201d atunci c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre propria fericire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eNecazul psihologului este, cel pu\u021bin pentru mine \u0219i pentru al\u021bii pe care \u00eei cunosc \u0219i pe care-i consider psihologi, aceast\u0103 chestie care e foarte interesant\u0103: ideea de versiuni ale eului t\u0103u. Noi avem de c\u00e2nd ne na\u0219tem, bine, sigur c\u0103 sunt \u0219i determin\u0103ri exterioare, dar avem at\u00e2tea versiuni posibile, c\u0103 de aici s-a n\u0103scut ideea de soart\u0103 \u0219i de destin \u0219i de nu \u0219tiu ce \u021bi-e scris \u00een frunte \u0219i \u021bi-e pus. Dar de multe ori \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 noi ,\u00eentr un fel, \u00een condi\u021bii s\u0103 zic normale, de\u0219i nu mai \u0219tii ce e normal a\u0219a, de ce facem anumite alegeri? C\u0103 de fapt le faci tu. Eu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 dac\u0103 este din exterior cum e acum cu r\u0103zboi, pandemia, sigur, determinarea, constr\u00e2ngerea vine din exterior, dar dac\u0103 nu vine din exterior, \u0219i exteriorul este molcom s\u0103 zic a\u0219a, tu e\u0219ti cel care alegi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Provocat\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre cum se vede fericire acum \u0219i cum o percepea \u00een tinere\u021be, pornind de la tema acestui sezon al podcastului Cronicari Digitali \u2013 \u201dPre\u021bul pe Fericire \u2013 Aurora Liiceanu spune c\u0103 acest concept nu era nici m\u0103car con\u0219tientizat \u00een modul \u00een care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een zilele noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201eCred c\u0103 nici nu m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam la conceptul de fericire a\u0219a cum se g\u00e2nde\u0219te ast\u0103zi ci mai degrab\u0103 tr\u0103iam evenimente mai bune, mai proaste, dar \u00een general \u021bin foarte bine minte c\u0103 nu foloseam expresia \u00abSunt fericit\u0103!\u00bb.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-e bine, sunt bine, vai ce bine e nu \u0219tiu ce. Deci mai degrab\u0103 mergeam c\u0103tre well-being. Cuv\u00e2ntul \u00abfericire\u00bb \u00eel g\u0103seam mai degrab\u0103 \u00een literatur\u0103, \u0219i ast\u0103zi cred c\u0103 nici \u00een psihologie nu este foarte acceptat, \u0219i mai degrab\u0103 \u00een literatur\u0103, eseistic\u0103, \u00een comunicare, \u00een media social\u0103 care exagereaz\u0103 ca \u00eentotdeauna&#8230; Dar r\u0103m\u00e2ne ideea c\u0103 fericirea se tr\u0103ie\u0219te, \u0219i \u00een niciun caz nu po\u021bi s\u0103 spui c\u0103 cineva poate s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dea o re\u021bet\u0103. Exist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 un adev\u0103r, \u0219i anume c\u0103 fericirea este un construct personal cum se personalizeaz\u0103 ast\u0103zi totul. Deci fiecare om are propria lui concep\u021bie sau mentalitate, mentalul lui e \u00eenlocuit de o anumit\u0103 imagine a fericirii adic\u0103 la o definire a fericirii a\u0219a cum o crede, iar fericirea este ceva extraordinar de relativ. \u00cens\u0103, pe de alt\u0103 parte, to\u021bi o privesc un lucru pe care \u021bi-l dore\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ceea ce nu \u00eemi place \u00een zilele de ast\u0103zi este c\u0103 e considerat a\u0219a \u00een termenii ace\u0219tia ultra-glorio\u0219i ca \u0219i c\u00e2nd ai fi obligat s\u0103 fii fericit. Cum naiba se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de nu e\u0219ti fericit? Este ca \u0219i reclama aia complet aiurea \u2013 pentru c\u0103 o meri\u021bi. Adic\u0103 cum s-ar spune ast\u0103zi, \u0219i cum am spus, un scriitor \u0219i eseist foarte bun, Finkielkraut, care a spus la un moment dat \u00abAst\u0103zi fericirea e obligatorie\u00bb. Este ca un fel de brand emo\u021bional al epocii \u00een care tr\u0103im. Deci din aceast\u0103 perspectiv\u0103 nu-mi r\u0103m\u00e2ne dec\u00e2t c\u0103 fericirea este ceva \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor\u201d, spune Aurora Liiceanu, \u00een podcastul Cronicari Digitali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https:\/\/embed.podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/cronicaridigitali-s6-aurora-liiceanu-despre-fericirea\/id1511474599?i=1000565202154\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen cel mai ascultat podcast cultural rom\u00e2nesc, <strong>Cronicari Digitali, Aurora Liiceanu<\/strong> face \u0219i o m\u0103rturisire surprinz\u0103toare: \u201ePot s\u0103 spun c\u0103 psihologii nu prea cred \u00een fericire. Chiar ne amuz\u0103m de c\u00e2te chestii se scriu despre Institutul de Happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;Psihologii mai lucizi, a\u0219 putea s\u0103 spun, \u0219i ra\u021bionali, \u0219i poate \u0219i mai one\u0219ti \u0219i nu at\u00e2t de dependen\u021bi de ce zice lumea, consider\u0103 c\u0103 de fapt este vorba de starea de bine \u0219i starea de bine \u021bi-o define\u0219ti singur. Pentru c\u0103 at\u00e2t la bine, c\u00e2t \u0219i la r\u0103u, oamenii au reac\u021bii foarte personale. Sunt oameni care sufer\u0103 foarte r\u0103u \u0219i nu cr\u00e2cnesc, \u0219i al\u021bii care url\u0103 la cea mai mic\u0103 \u00een\u021bep\u0103tur\u0103. \u0218i respectiv, \u0219i ca fericire, unora le trebuie foarte mult altora le trebuie foarte pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i cred c\u0103 exist\u0103 o deosebire din punctul \u0103sta de vedere. Deci, dac\u0103 cumva se navigheaz\u0103 pe internet \u0219i se merge la Matthieu Ricard \u0219i conferin\u021bele lui despre fericire putem afla lucruri foarte inteligente, mai ales c\u0103 el a f\u0103cut sondaje academice, adic\u0103 el are \u0219i un sprijin academic. Am zis c\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 ne mul\u021bumim chiar cu ideea de mul\u021bumire. Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti mul\u021bumit cum tr\u0103ie\u0219ti, dac\u0103 exist\u0103, la o oarecare distan\u021b\u0103 de tine, necazuri \u0219i inconveniente minore, sau tu po\u021bi s\u0103 le minorizezi, atunci po\u021bi s\u0103 spui c\u0103 \u00eentr-adev\u0103r tr\u0103ie\u0219ti bine. Dar prinde acea expresie fran\u021buzeasc\u0103 care probabil ca a dat na\u0219tere \u0219i la z\u00e2mbetele t\u00e2mpe \u0219i la apetitul pentru fericire cu orice pre\u021b, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 defineasc\u0103 fericirea, c\u0103rei se nume\u0219te \u00abjoie de vivre\u00bb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen discu\u021bia purtat\u0103 cu jurnalista cultural\u0103 <strong>Diana Popescu, Aurora Liiceanu<\/strong> \u0219i-a deschis sufletul \u00een <strong>podcastul Cronicari Digitali<\/strong> \u0219i a folosit o metafore pline de culoare pentru a descrie a\u0219tept\u0103rile diferite pe care le avem cu to\u021bii de la via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA\u0219 face o aici observa\u021bie. De multe ori ar trebui s\u0103 te sim\u021bi fericit \u0219i via\u021ba te ia a\u0219a t\u0103v\u0103lug \u0219i nu \u00ee\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 e\u0219ti fericit. \u0218i am s\u0103 dau un exemplu, c\u00e2nd a venit t\u0103v\u0103lugul cu pandemia, a fost un fel de lovitur\u0103 planetar\u0103 \u0219i asupra stilului de via\u021b\u0103, comunic\u0103rii etc. \u0218tiu c\u0103 un ziarist de la El Pa\u00eds a scris c\u0103 \u00eenainte de pandemie tr\u0103iam, ne bucuram, eram ferici\u021bi \u0219i nici m\u0103car nu ne d\u0103deam seama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A avut avut foarte mult r\u0103sunet observa\u021bia lui c\u0103 ai trecut pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 un tren confortabil \u0219i nu te-ai urcat \u00een el sau nu \u0219tiu ce ai avut sau nu \u021bi ai dat seama, \u00een loc s\u0103 te bucuri. Deci, e adev\u0103rat c\u0103 te bucuri de ceva de abia dup\u0103 ce \u00eel pierzi. E posibil s\u0103 nu fii at\u00e2t de bucuros pe c\u00e2t credem noi c\u0103 e\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deci, dac\u0103 e s\u0103 o iau a\u0219a, oamenii \u00ee\u0219i doresc vie\u021bii lineare, s\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mple nimic important. S\u0103 te a\u0219ezi ca vaca care rumeg\u0103 lini\u0219tit\u0103 pe paji\u0219te \u00een lungul drum al vie\u021bii. Al\u021bii prefer\u0103 totu\u0219i br\u00e2nciuri de la via\u021b\u0103, provoc\u0103ri, lupte, s\u0103 faci ceva cu via\u021ba ta, s\u0103 construie\u0219ti. \u0218i oamenii sunt foarte diferi\u021bi. E adev\u0103rat c\u0103 cel care tr\u0103ie\u0219te mai zbuciumat e mai interesant, ai ce s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti cu el. Cu cel\u0103lalt care tr\u0103ie\u0219te a\u0219a \u0219i pentru care lunea e ca mar\u021bea, mar\u021bea ca miercurea, miercurea ca joia etc., aceast\u0103 rutin\u0103 mizerabil\u0103 \u0219i banal\u0103 a vie\u021bii cotidiene dup\u0103 p\u0103rerea mea nu prea e ok. Parc\u0103 e mai bine s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi mai dea br\u00e2nci.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Podcastul Cronicari Digitali<\/strong>, produs de <a href=\"https:\/\/zagabrand.ro\/\"><strong>Zaga Brand<\/strong><\/a> \u0219i <a href=\"https:\/\/humart.ro\/\"><strong>Asocia\u021bia Humart (Human Made Art)<\/strong><\/a><strong>,<\/strong> vine cu episoade noi \u00een fiecare joi \u0219i vineri pe toate platformele de streaming audio \u0219i pe <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cronicaridigitali.ro\">www.cronicaridigitali.ro<\/a>\/podcast. &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La 80 de ani, <b>Aurora Liiceanu<\/b> m\u0103rturise\u0219te c\u0103 reflec\u021biile asupra fericirii par o preocupare a genera\u021biilor actuale, \u00eentr-o mai mare m\u0103sur\u0103 dec\u00e2t a celor care s-au bucurat de anii tinere\u021bii \u00eenainte de 90.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4565,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[1025,1018,1017],"coauthors":[],"class_list":["post-4564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stiri-si-anunturi","tag-aurora-liiceanu","tag-cronicari-digitali","tag-stiri"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Aurora-Liiceanu-postare-FBIG.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4564"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4564\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4569,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4564\/revisions\/4569"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4564"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcoauthors&post=4564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}