{"id":3581,"date":"2021-12-07T16:50:52","date_gmt":"2021-12-07T13:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=3581"},"modified":"2021-12-18T00:32:03","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T21:32:03","slug":"problema-e-cum-il-faci-antipatic-fara-sa-l-faci-simpatic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=3581","title":{"rendered":"Problema e cum \u00eel faci antipatic f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l faci simpatic"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Un personaj poate fi numit antipatic numai dac\u0103 a\u0219a l-a vrut autorul, altfel discu\u021bia nu duce nic\u0103ieri, fiecare cititor&nbsp;antipatizeaz\u0103&nbsp;altceva, pe altcineva \u0219i motivele s\u00eent la fel de variate. Antipatizezi pe cineva doar c\u0103-\u021bi aminte\u0219te de altcineva din copil\u0103rie care \u021bi-a f\u0103cut un r\u0103u de un fel sau altul sau pentru c\u0103 \u021bi se pare fals sau prea str\u0103in de ceea ce e\u0219ti sau poate \u021bi-e prea asem\u0103n\u0103tor (doi anxio\u0219i se antipatizeaz\u0103, la fel dou\u0103 dive) sau \u021bi-e antipatic dar te fascineaz\u0103, cum \u00eemi zice mama c\u00eend se uit\u0103 la televizor \u201ece antipatic\u0103 mi-e actri\u021ba asta, n-o suport\u201d dar continu\u0103 s\u0103 se uite.&nbsp; E\u0219ti negativist \u0219i antipatizezi pozitivismul exagerat \u0219i invers. \u0218i bine\u00een\u021beles, fiecare \u00ee\u0219i absolutizeaz\u0103&nbsp;antipatia, o crede ceva obiectiv \u2013 mama \u00eemi zice de fapt \u201ece antipatic\u0103 e actri\u021ba&nbsp;asta\u201d \u0219i m\u0103 \u0219i ia ca martor, \u201enu \u021bi se pare?\u201d \u0219i e enervat\u0103 dac\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 recunosc Adev\u0103rul. Exist\u0103 bine\u00een\u021beles \u0219i antipatie indus\u0103 programatic prin ideologie \u0219i de multe ori nici n-are o realitate visceral\u0103, e doar o conven\u021bie. \u0218i mai e antipatia venit\u0103 din necunoa\u0219tere, din neobi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103&nbsp;\u2013 mie mi-s&nbsp;antipatici autori \u00eenainte s\u0103-i fi citit, doar pe baza unei impresii \u0219i pe urm\u0103 am o surpriz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 m\u0103 uit la o list\u0103 cu cele mai bune romane rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti, cum tocmai am f\u0103cut acum, ca s\u0103-mi amintesc antipatiile, descop\u0103r c\u0103 majoritatea m\u0103 irit\u0103 prin lipsa de umor, \u00een primul r\u00eend, prin senza\u021bia de oprimare pe care mi-o dau, ca&nbsp;\u0219i cum m-ar \u021bine \u00eentr-o clas\u0103 de \u0219coal\u0103 \u00een continuare. Dar e o senza\u021bie venit\u0103 tocmai din cauza \u0219colii \u0219i n-are mult de-a face cu c\u0103r\u021bile \u00een sine. Dac\u0103 m\u0103 apuc s\u0103 le&nbsp;recitesc, intru&nbsp;\u00een filmul lor \u0219i \u00eel iau ca atare (nimic nu mi-e mai antipatic dec\u00eet atitudinea de consumator a cititorilor care spun \u201ea\u0219 fi vrut altceva de la carte\u201d; nu, vreau ce-mi d\u0103, vreau s\u0103 fie autoarea sau autorul c\u00eermaci dibaci \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 duc\u0103 unde \u0219tie, nu unde vreau eu).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar cum construie\u0219ti un personaj inten\u021bionat antipatic? Unul simpatic parc\u0103 e mai u\u0219or, po\u021bi s\u0103-l pui la \u00eenceput \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie de victim\u0103 sau prin alte trucuri asem\u0103n\u0103toare \u2013 oare, simetric, \u00eel faci antipatic cu acelea\u0219i trucuri dar inversate? \u00cel pui de la \u00eenceput \u00eentr-o pozi\u021bie de putere, \u00eel faci un fel de tiran sau \u00eel faci prea satisf\u0103cut de sine? Nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 zic, mie mi-s simpatice personajele imorale sau egocentrate \u2013 dac\u0103 egocentrarea&nbsp;lor e mai degrab\u0103 inofensiv\u0103. Problema e deci cum \u00eel faci antipatic f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-l faci simpatic tocmai din cauza sau datorit\u0103, \u00een cazul \u0103sta, a ceea ce ar trebui s\u0103-l fac\u0103 antipatic. Nici dac\u0103 e foarte zg\u00eercit&nbsp;\u0219i, s\u0103 zicem, \u00ee\u0219i priveaz\u0103 familia, copiii, de pl\u0103ceri din avari\u021bie \u2013 mi se face mil\u0103 de el, \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 e nevrotic. Poate dac\u0103 \u0219i-ar face el totu\u0219i pl\u0103cerile \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eentr-un fel c\u00eet mai nesim\u021bit. Asta ar fi deci o idee \u2013 s\u0103 fie nedrept. Nedreptatea se resimte visceral, studiile pe animale o demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 e un sentiment universal indignarea la nedreptate, furia st\u00eernit\u0103&nbsp;de a\u0219a ceva. Am v\u0103zut multe momente nedrepte dar m\u0103 b\u00eentuie&nbsp;privirea unui \u021b\u0103ran \u00eentr-o pia\u021b\u0103, c\u00eend&nbsp;fusese nedrept\u0103\u021bit de cineva, nu \u0219tiu de ce, i-am v\u0103zut doar privirea, o combina\u021bie de neputin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i indignare sf\u00eent\u0103, i-a\u0219 zice, fiindc\u0103 are r\u0103d\u0103cinile undeva foarte ad\u00eenc, fundamental. Nu \u0219tiu ce i se f\u0103cuse, era ceva legat de o femeie, era \u0219i ea pe acolo, parc\u0103, dar mai \u00eencolo, fuseser\u0103 separa\u021bi cumva? Dar \u00een ce fel fusese umilit, asta \u0219tiu sigur. \u0218i am sim\u021bit o antipatie total\u0103, uciga\u0219\u0103, pentru cel care-l umilise, de\u0219i nici nu \u0219tiu cine era, nici nu \u0219tiu ce se \u00eent\u00eemplase. Dac\u0103 a\u0219 scrie \u00eentr-o povestire asta, nu \u0219tiu cum a\u0219 putea s-o fac f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 trebuiasc\u0103 s\u0103 povestesc \u0219i ce s-a \u00eent\u00eemplat&nbsp;\u0219i s\u0103 \u0219i r\u0103m\u00een\u0103&nbsp;antipatia. Nici m\u0103car nu pot s\u0103 descriu privirea, ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 bazez pe capacitatea de evocare a cititorului. Era un \u021b\u0103ran t\u00een\u0103r, st\u0103tea pe trotuar \u00een fa\u021ba \u0219aormeriei&nbsp;de l\u00eeng\u0103&nbsp;pia\u021b\u0103 \u0219i se uita \u00een direc\u021bia aia ca un c\u00eeine&nbsp;izgonit. Am v\u0103zut-o parc\u0103 \u0219i pe femeie, nu \u0219tiu de ce a\u0219a am impresia. La \u0219aormeria&nbsp;aia stau tot felul de broscoi agresivi, samsari unii, taximetri\u0219ti, dar \u0219i frecangii, poate unul din ei \u00eel agresase&nbsp;cumva. Asociez locul \u0103la cu un alt moment, c\u00eend un inspector de la prim\u0103rie, cred, sau de la firma de salubritate, habar n-am, certa ni\u0219te m\u0103tur\u0103tori c\u0103 le-a sc\u0103pat ceva nem\u0103turat. Era t\u00een\u0103r, ar\u0103tos, aranjat, u\u0219or milit\u0103ros, ca&nbsp;un inspector, \u0219i ceva dispre\u021buitor \u00een tonul lui \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 la prim\u0103rie sau la firm\u0103 la el le vorbe\u0219te total invers superiorilor \u0219i asta mi l-a f\u0103cut automat antipatic. La Camil Petrescu se vede bine asta, cum prezint\u0103 el anumite personaje \u0219i cum le prezint\u0103 pe altele, dup\u0103 clasa lor social\u0103 \u2013 \u0219i asta mi l-a f\u0103cut dintotdeauna antipatic ca autor. Aceea\u0219i pia\u021b\u0103 \u0219i mintea mea a combinat momentele \u2013 de\u0219i erau diferite, mintea mea le-a pus \u00een acela\u0219i pachet, aceea\u0219i senza\u021bie de nedreptate. Orice nu f\u0103cuser\u0103 m\u0103tur\u0103torii \u0103ia, nu meritau tonul \u0103la, nu doar dur, dar \u0219i plin de importan\u021b\u0103, ca&nbsp;\u0219i cum Bucure\u0219tiul n-ar fi o gunoi\u0219te imens\u0103, \u00een toate sensurile, nu doar cel literal \u0219i ca&nbsp;\u0219i cum interven\u021bia lui era crucial\u0103. Cam pe aici, la nedreptate, ar fi butonul unei antipatii universale, nu doar al uneia personale.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Asta ar fi deci o idee \u2013 s\u0103 fie nedrept. 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