{"id":15406,"date":"2026-05-05T12:49:47","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T09:49:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=15406"},"modified":"2026-05-05T12:49:56","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T09:49:56","slug":"usor-cu-panica-pe-scari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=15406","title":{"rendered":"U\u0219or cu panica pe sc\u0103ri"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"924\" src=\"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/generatie.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15407\" style=\"width:350px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/generatie.jpg 600w, https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/generatie-195x300.jpg 195w, https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/generatie-480x739.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>N-am prea scris recenzii negative, dar a venit \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it \u0219i momentul acesta. Exist\u0103 o linie fin\u0103 \u00eentre a trage un semnal de alarm\u0103 \u0219i a ap\u0103sa pe toate butoanele de panic\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 func\u021bioneaz\u0103. Iar campania prin care editura Bookzone promoveaz\u0103 pe re\u021belele de socializare cartea lui Jonathan Haidt <em>O genera\u021bie uimitoare<\/em> dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219te lejer linia asta. Tonul folosit e unul apocaliptic, vocabularul e construit astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 apese exact unde doare mai tare, iar p\u0103rintele e plasat \u00eentr-o pozi\u021bie dificil\u0103: fie reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 imediat, adic\u0103 cump\u0103r\u0103 cartea, fie contribuie implicit la problem\u0103. Predomin\u0103 formul\u0103rile de tabloid de genul \u201esitua\u021bia este critic\u0103\u201d, avem o \u201ecriz\u0103 de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103 juvenil\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 precedent\u201d (serios? cineva mai poate folosi expresia asta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i fie m\u0103car pu\u021bin jen\u0103?), iar \u201eratele depresiei \u0219i anxiet\u0103\u021bii au explodat\u201d. Ca tat\u0103, campania lor nu doar c\u0103 nu m\u0103 convinge, ci m\u0103 \u0219i scoate din s\u0103rite. Pentru c\u0103 exact de asta mai aveau nevoie p\u0103rin\u021bii: de ni\u0219te <em>shaming<\/em> combinat\u0103 cu <em>bullying<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tiu bine ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 riscurile expunerii copiilor la Internet \u0219i le tr\u0103iesc zilnic cu fiul meu, c\u00e2nd negociem timpul petrecut \u00een fa\u021ba ecranelor \u0219i pe cel petrecut \u00een fa\u021ba caietelor cu teme. Chiar n-am nevoie s\u0103 mai vin\u0103 cineva care s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 c\u0103 o \u201ehemoragie de timp\u201d \u00eemi fur\u0103 copilul, de parc\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 ieri a\u0219 fi fost un p\u0103rinte complet absent. \u00cen textele astea publicitare exist\u0103 o lips\u0103 de \u00eencredere \u00een inteligen\u021ba \u0219i efortul p\u0103rin\u021bilor care devine, la un moment dat, jignitoare. Suntem trata\u021bi ca ni\u0219te oameni care trebuie b\u0103ga\u021bi \u00een sperie\u021bi, nu ca ni\u0219te adul\u021bi care deja \u00eencearc\u0103, cum pot, s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 pasul cu o realitate complicat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mai e ceva. Felul \u00een care sunt descri\u0219i copiii e reductiv p\u00e2n\u0103 la caricatur\u0103. Ace\u0219tia devin aproape exclusiv ni\u0219te victime hipnotizate, vulnerabile, incapabile s\u0103 aplice orice filtru. Dac\u0103 le vorbe\u0219ti doar ca unor fiin\u021be aflate \u00eentr-un permanent pericol, le r\u0103pe\u0219ti exact autonomia pe care sus\u021bii c\u0103 vrei s-o construie\u0219ti. E aici \u0219i o ironie greu de ignorat: ni se spune c\u0103 algoritmii creeaz\u0103 dependen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i amplific\u0103 frica, iar campania folose\u0219te exact acelea\u0219i mecanisme. Dram\u0103, senza\u021bia c\u0103 e\u0219ti mereu la un pas de dezastru. Func\u021bioneaz\u0103, probabil, dar nu-i genul de rela\u021bie pe care mi-o doresc cu o editur\u0103 care public\u0103 c\u0103r\u021bi adresate p\u0103rin\u021bilor \u0219i copiilor. Vreau s\u0103 fiu respectat, nu scos din s\u0103rite \u0219i certat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca s\u0103 \u00eenchei: drag\u0103 editur\u0103 Bookzone, mai u\u0219or cu panica pe sc\u0103ri. Nu ne mai jigni\u021bi nici pe noi, nici pe copiii no\u0219tri. Noi suntem cei care v\u0103 cump\u0103r\u0103m c\u0103r\u021bile \u0219i, uneori, mai avem \u0219i memorie. Poate c\u0103 n-avem chef s\u0103 ne spune\u021bi c\u0103 copiii no\u0219tri \u00ee\u0219i pierd vremea \u201eholb\u00e2ndu-se hipnotiza\u021bi la un ecran\u201d. Nu cred c\u0103 e o strategie bun\u0103 s\u0103 faci orice doar pentru a-\u021bi vinde c\u0103r\u021bile, pentru c\u0103 asta s-ar putea \u00eentoarce \u00eempotriva voastr\u0103. \u0218i \u00eenc\u0103 ceva. Nu educi nici copii, nici p\u0103rin\u021bi cu filmule\u021be st\u00e2ngace f\u0103cute cu AI \u0219i cu nostalgii reciclate despre \u201evremurile c\u00e2nd cre\u0219team afar\u0103, cu genunchii juli\u021bi\u201d. Unii dintre noi chiar am tr\u0103it acele vremuri \u0219i \u0219tim c\u0103 nu erau nici pe departe at\u00e2t de simple pe c\u00e2t par acum \u00een reclame. Lumea s-a schimbat, oamenii la fel. Iar ideea c\u0103 ne-am dori s\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m copiii s\u0103 dispar\u0103 ore \u00eentregi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tim nimic de ei sun\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 ca o fantezie publicitar\u0103 dec\u00e2t ca o realitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar acum, c\u0103 am terminat cu editura, s\u0103 trec la carte. Care, a\u0219a cum \u00eemi \u0219i \u00eenchipuiam, e chiar interesant\u0103. Avem un ghid pentru copii care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-i \u00eenve\u021be cum s\u0103 navigheze printre pericolele Internetului \u0219i, mai ales, ale re\u021belelor de socializare. Le spune ce se afl\u0103 de fapt \u00een spatele aplica\u021biilor pline de lipici \/ sclipici care ne-au \u00eenghi\u021bit cu totul \u00een ultimii ani. Mai mult, mi se pare genul de con\u021binut care ar trebui predat \u00een \u0219coli. Educa\u021bia media nu mai e un moft, e o form\u0103 de supravie\u021buire pentru oricine vrea s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 cu picioarele pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt \u0219i cu mintea \u00eentreag\u0103. \u0218i e important de spus c\u0103 cartea e echilibrat\u0103, argumentat\u0103 \u0219i, mai ales, nu seam\u0103n\u0103 deloc cu reclama care o \u00eempinge \u00een fa\u021b\u0103. Ea explic\u0103, pune lucrurile \u00een context, face leg\u0103tura \u00eentre date, observa\u021bii \u0219i exemple \u00eentr-un fel care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. \u0218i asta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i transforme pe copii \u00een victime f\u0103r\u0103 sc\u0103pare, dezv\u0103luind \u00een schimb mecanismele \u0219i pericolele, plus felul \u00een care pot fi dep\u0103\u0219ite. Dac\u0103 ar fi fost promovat\u0103 cu aceea\u0219i decen\u021b\u0103 cu care e scris\u0103, probabil c\u0103 n-a\u0219 fi avut nimic de repro\u0219at. A\u0219a, r\u0103m\u00e2ne un paradox: o carte care te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219ti limpede e trimis\u0103 \u00een lume printr-o strategie care mizeaz\u0103 pe panic\u0103. \u0218i e p\u0103cat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cartea pentru copii de Alex Moldovan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":15407,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[60,52],"tags":[94,95,2777],"coauthors":[1128],"class_list":["post-15406","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cartea-pentru-copii","category-rubrici","tag-alex-moldovan","tag-cartea-pentru-copii","tag-nr-3-2026"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/generatie.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15406","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15406"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15406\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15410,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15406\/revisions\/15410"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15407"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15406"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15406"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15406"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcoauthors&post=15406"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}