{"id":15042,"date":"2026-03-13T19:00:24","date_gmt":"2026-03-13T16:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=15042"},"modified":"2026-03-13T19:00:30","modified_gmt":"2026-03-13T16:00:30","slug":"panica-sau-realitate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=15042","title":{"rendered":"Panic\u0103 sau realitate?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd cineva zice c\u0103 literatura \u00eei transform\u0103 pe copii \u00een fatali\u0219ti simt c\u0103 mi se face r\u0103u. Copiii nu-s ni\u0219te bure\u021bi care absorb fiecare cuv\u00e2nt trist ca pe o lovitur\u0103 mortal\u0103. Literatura le ofer\u0103 context, empatie \u0219i oportunitatea s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 critic. S\u0103 se opun\u0103. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 cre\u0219ti oameni preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru via\u021b\u0103, trebuie s\u0103-i la\u0219i s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 lumea nu e perfect\u0103, c\u0103 exist\u0103 peste tot nedrept\u0103\u021bi \u0219i dificult\u0103\u021bi, \u0219i c\u0103 totu\u0219i po\u021bi g\u0103si solu\u021bii. Reducerea literaturii la o lupt\u0103 dintre pesimism \u0219i optimism mi se pare infantilizare pur\u0103: copiii \u0219tiu s\u0103 discute, s\u0103 judece \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 propria p\u0103rere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am citit de cur\u00e2nd un material \u00een care se sus\u021binea c\u0103 textele literare din manualele rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti sunt de-a dreptul periculoase pentru c\u0103 nu au un ton pozitiv. Pur \u0219i simplu nu pot achiesa (scuze, de mult \u00eemi doream s\u0103 folosesc acest cuv\u00e2nt \u00eentr-un text) la aceast\u0103 idee. Cultura \u0219i istoria sunt complexe. Ar fi absurd s\u0103 le prezent\u0103m copiilor o realitate sterilizat\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 conflicte, drame sau obstacole. Serios! Literatura exist\u0103 tocmai pentru a-i \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba pe cititori cum s\u0103 navigheze printre emo\u021bii, cum s\u0103 fac\u0103 alegeri \u00een\u021belepte \u0219i cum s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la empatie. Altfel am scrie textele direct cu inteligen\u021ba artificial\u0103, ca s\u0103 elimin\u0103m orice fel de probleme \u0219i dubii. Copiii \u00een\u021beleg, critic\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 din aceste texte. Nu-i vorba de fatalism. Dac\u0103 ar fi at\u00e2t de u\u0219or s\u0103 omori speran\u021ba prin c\u0103r\u021bi, am fi pierdut genera\u021bii \u00eentregi de elevi \u0219i oameni. \u0218i s\u0103 fim serio\u0219i: nimeni nu se a\u0219teapt\u0103 ca un copil de clasa a V-a s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 drama ca un adult. Dar literatura \u00eei \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 problemele exist\u0103, c\u0103 unii oameni fac r\u0103u \u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba nu vine cu instruc\u021biuni de folosire. \u0218i exact asta e frumuse\u021bea: copiii pot discuta, analiza \u0219i g\u0103si solu\u021bii. A-i proteja excesiv, a filtra orice text, e mult mai d\u0103un\u0103tor. Le subestim\u0103m capacitatea de a procesa \u0219i de a se adapta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai mult, panica asta generalizat\u0103 ignor\u0103 rolul real al profesorilor \u0219i al familiei. Elevii nu sunt expu\u0219i la textele din manuale ca la un experiment chimic. Profesorii discut\u0103, explic\u0103, fac leg\u0103turi cu realitatea \u0219i \u00eei ajut\u0103 pe copii s\u0103 extrag\u0103 lec\u021bii constructive. Sigur, nu to\u021bi<\/em> profesorii fac asta \u0219i nu to\u021bi<\/em> p\u0103rin\u021bii stau s\u0103 le explice celor mici cum st\u0103 treaba. \u00cens\u0103 un text nu e fatalist la modul absolut dac\u0103 e pus \u00een context, iar copilului i se ofer\u0103 instrumente s\u0103-l \u00een\u021beleag\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 nu literatura sau manualele omoar\u0103 speran\u021ba. Realitatea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i o face. De asemenea, s\u0103r\u0103cia \u0219i lipsa de sprijin emo\u021bional din partea adul\u021bilor. E suficient s\u0103 privim pentru c\u00e2teva secunde \u00een jur sau la \u0219tiri ca s\u0103 ne l\u0103murim. Iar textele literare nu sunt bombe emo\u021bionale, ci resurse de empatie, reflec\u021bie \u0219i g\u00e2ndire critic\u0103, desigur, dac\u0103 are cine le prezenta \u0219i folosi astfel. A le reduce la traum\u0103 \u0219i fatalism e nu doar inutil \u0219i simplist, ci \u0219i o subestimare a inteligen\u021bei copiilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u0218oarecele \u0219i crocodilul sunt prieteni vechi. Genul \u0103la de prieteni care \u00ee\u0219i spun glume proaste, se ajut\u0103 la nevoie \u0219i uneori \u00ee\u0219i mai pierd maracas-urile. Mai ales crocodilul, care are un adev\u0103rat talent de a r\u0103t\u0103ci lucruri. C\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0219i d\u0103 seama c\u0103 nu-\u0219i mai g\u0103se\u0219te zdr\u0103ng\u0103nelele \u0219i \u00eencepe s\u0103 b\u0103nuiasc\u0103 c\u0103 le-ar fi \u00eenghi\u021bit din gre\u0219eal\u0103, \u0219oricelul \u00eei sare imediat \u00een ajutor. La propriu, adic\u0103 direct \u00een stomac. F\u0103r\u0103 casc\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 lantern\u0103, doar cu mult curaj \u0219i o prietenie solid\u0103. Doar c\u0103 burta crocodilului e un mic ora\u0219 subteran: aglomerat, ciudat \u0219i plin de surprize. Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce caut\u0103 maracas-urile \u0219i \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219te suspect de mult\u0103 lume cunoscut\u0103, \u0219oricelului \u00eei trece prin cap o idee nelini\u0219titoare: dac\u0103 crocodilul nu \u00eei e tocmai prieten? Dac\u0103 l-a m\u00e2ncat inten\u021bionat? Imposibil. Sau\u2026 poate c\u0103 nu? Ideea asta pune st\u0103p\u00e2nire pe el, iar c\u0103utarea se transform\u0103 \u00eentr-o aventur\u0103 despre \u00eencredere, fric\u0103 \u0219i ce faci c\u00e2nd \u00eendoiala \u00ee\u021bi bate la u\u0219\u0103. Ca s\u0103 afla\u021bi finalul, trebuie s\u0103 ajunge\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103tul pove\u0219tii \u0219i al crocodilului. V\u0103 promit c\u0103 merit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cendoiala<\/em>, de Silvia Borando \u0219i Alberto Lot, e o poveste istea\u021b\u0103, amuzant\u0103 \u0219i nea\u0219teptat de profund\u0103, perfect\u0103 pentru 2-8 ani, care ne vorbe\u0219te despre prietenie, \u00eencredere \u0219i micile suspiciuni pe care cu to\u021bii le avem din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd. E bun\u0103 pentru copii \u0219i foarte<\/em> bun\u0103 pentru adul\u021bii care sus\u021bin c\u0103 nu mai au \u00eendoieli. Premiat\u0103 interna\u021bional (The White Ravens \u00een 2023, Ibby Honour List, Italia, \u00een 2023), ilustrat\u0103 cu umor \u0219i ritm \u00eentr-un stil minimalist, u\u0219or digestibil pentru cei mici (pun intended<\/em>), cartea \u00eemi aduce aminte de c\u00e2teva dintre pove\u0219tile copil\u0103riei mele. Traducerea \u00een rom\u00e2n\u0103 a ap\u0103rut la Editura Povestela Ofir \u0219i poart\u0103 semn\u0103tura lui Florin Bican \u0219i a Jessic\u0103i Andreoli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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