{"id":14550,"date":"2026-01-07T13:10:43","date_gmt":"2026-01-07T10:10:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=14550"},"modified":"2026-01-07T13:11:02","modified_gmt":"2026-01-07T10:11:02","slug":"trei-raspunsuri-despre-volumul-fete-bune-fete-cuminti-de-la-autoarea-lui-ramona-boldizsar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/?p=14550","title":{"rendered":"Trei r\u0103spunsuri despre volumul \u201eFete bune. Fete cumin\u021bi\u201d de la autoarea lui, Ramona Boldizsar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Cum s-a conturat ideea volumului <em>Fete bune. Fete cumin\u021bi<\/em>?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Titlul a \u00eenceput s\u0103 dea tonul prozelor \u2013 chiar dac\u0103 unele din povestiri existau deja atunci c\u00e2nd mi-am dat seama cum se va numi cartea, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 aleg \u0219i chiar s\u0103 scriu o parte din ele conform cu <em>Fete bune. Fete cumin\u021bi: <\/em>\u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri despre ni\u0219te fete la v\u00e2rste variate pe care le leag\u0103 c\u00e2teva fire comune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Primul element de leg\u0103tur\u0103 este experien\u021ba \u0219i via\u021ba \u00eentr-o societate patriarhal\u0103, cel\u0103lalt este o la\u0219itate intrinsec\u0103 care probabil atinge orice fiin\u021b\u0103 uman\u0103, iar cel de-al treilea fir e compus dintr-o via\u021b\u0103 interioar\u0103 bogat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am vrut ca fetele astea s\u0103 fie reale, palpabile \u00een nara\u021biunile pe care le-am inventat, a\u0219a c\u0103 introspec\u021biile lor nu sunt filosofice, teoretice sau elaborate, ci mai degrab\u0103 anxiet\u0103\u021bi, proiec\u021bii \u0219i analize ale propriilor vie\u021bi \u0219i decizii. Pentru mine este \u0219i un demers revendicator al personajelor femei care g\u00e2ndesc, indiferent despre ce.&nbsp;<br>Am reu\u0219it s\u0103 creez o coeren\u021b\u0103 a acestor inten\u021bii nu doar scriind aceast\u0103 carte, ci \u0219i citind autoare precum Clarice Lispector, Elena Ferrante, Annie Ernaux sau Rachel Cusk \u2013 am vrut s\u0103 scriu \u0219i eu fete <em>basic <\/em>care explodeaz\u0103 la ele-n cap, fete obi\u0219nuite care-\u0219i caut\u0103 identit\u0103\u021biile \u0219i-\u0219i contureaz\u0103 mental obsesiile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Cum a decurs scrierea lui?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">La \u00eenceput a fost doar un exerci\u021biu, \u00eembinat cu nevoia de a scrie. Pentru c\u0103 am plecat \u00eentotdeauna de la un lucru concret, ceva banal, o secven\u021b\u0103 din cotidian, mi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat destul de des s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 scriu o scen\u0103 \u0219i am format pretexte sub form\u0103 de personaje. Atunci c\u00e2nd mi-am dat seama c\u0103 scriu de fapt la o carte, am \u00eenceput s\u0103 scriu cu mult mai mult\u0103 inten\u021bie, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd s\u0103 plasez personajele femei \u00een anumite cadre \u0219i s\u0103 explorez tematic ceva ce nu f\u0103cusem \u00eenc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a luat cam patru ani s\u0103 adun prozele din aceast\u0103 carte, au existat \u0219i multe \u00eencerc\u0103ri e\u0219uate sau povestiri care nu se pretau volumului pe care l-am g\u00e2ndit. Nu a\u0219 spune c\u0103 a fost un proces anevoios, m-a distrat s\u0103 scriu \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i inadecv\u0103rile \u0219i nesiguran\u021bele \u0219i-au avut rolul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Cum v\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103 fie citit volumul <em>Fete bune. Fete cumin\u021bi<\/em>?<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Nu-mi doresc s\u0103 fie citit \u00eentr-un anumit fel. De fapt, simt c\u0103 asta nu e treaba mea. Am rezonat foarte mult cu ce a spus Tracy Chevalier pe scena FILIT anul acesta, \u00een dialog cu Ioana B\u00e2ldea Constantinescu \u2013 cartea este un contract \u00eentre scriitor \u0219i cititor. E \u00een \u00eentregime gata atunci c\u00e2nd e citit\u0103, iar asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 cititorii au o libertate total\u0103 de expresie \u0219i interpretare. Sigur, dac\u0103 se ive\u0219te ocazia s\u0103 l\u0103muresc inten\u021bii \u0219i interpret\u0103ri personale, atunci e distractiv pentru mine, dar nu a\u0219 anula experien\u021ba unui cititor, chiar dac\u0103 nu sunt de acord cu ea. Este la fel de adev\u0103rat c\u0103 pot exista interpret\u0103ri eronate ale unor lucruri factuale, dar nici aici nu simt c\u0103 e treaba mea s\u0103 intervin \u0219i s\u0103 corectez. Eu am scris o carte \u0219i ce pot face e s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc ce pot despre cum am scris-o \u0219i ce am vrut s\u0103 transmit prin ea. Cum va fi citit\u0103, de cine, c\u00e2nd, \u00een ce fel, nu depinde de mine. Ce-mi doresc e s\u0103 st\u00e2rneasc\u0103 reac\u021bii la cei care-o citesc. Cel mai nasol lucru e s\u0103 deschid\u0103 cineva cartea ta \u0219i s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 e plictisitoare \u2013 mi se pare oric\u00e2nd mai benefic s-o urasc\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eMi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat destul de des s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 scriu o scen\u0103 \u0219i am format pretexte sub form\u0103 de personaje.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":14551,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1616],"tags":[1617,2018,2648,132,98,435],"coauthors":[1278],"class_list":["post-14550","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cum","tag-cum","tag-editura-humanitas","tag-fete-bune-fete-cuminti","tag-interviu","tag-proza-scurta","tag-ramona-boldizsar"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/CUM-Ramona-Boldizsar-Fete.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14550","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14550"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14550\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14553,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14550\/revisions\/14553"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14551"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14550"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14550"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14550"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/revistafamilia.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcoauthors&post=14550"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}