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Carte scris\u0103 cu sprijinul Burselor C\u0103rture\u0219ti<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen prag de pensionare, mai mul\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi, care au cunoscut diferite grade de e\u0219ec de-a lungul vie\u021bii, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i salveze existen\u021ba prin orice ar p\u0103rea s\u0103 fie o \u0219ans\u0103 pentru o via\u021b\u0103 mai bun\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 soarta are propriile socoteli, iar acestea nu coincid cu ale lor. Sub lupa unei nara\u021biuni introspective \u0219i confesive, nu de pu\u021bine ori cu un ton ironic, rela\u021biile de familie, de prietenie, moartea, singur\u0103tatea, pierderea, alienarea \u0219i incapacitatea de a comunica sunt temele majore \u00een via\u021ba omului plin de remu\u0219c\u0103ri, invadat de amintiri \u0219i care a acumulat un bagaj de frustr\u0103ri mai mici sau mai mari. Iar dincolo de lumea interioar\u0103 vegheaz\u0103 una exterioar\u0103, c\u0103reia personajele \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-i supravie\u021buiasc\u0103 ocup\u00e2nd slujbe m\u0103runte sau scriind piese de teatru neb\u0103gate \u00een seam\u0103 de niciun regizor, reflect\u00e2nd astfel complexitatea rela\u021biilor umane \u0219i fragilitatea fiin\u021bei \u00een fa\u021ba timpului \u0219i a pierderilor inevitabile.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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B\u0103i Victore, c\u00e2t de idiot po\u0163i s\u0103 fii \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103\u2011\u0163i imaginezi c\u0103, \u00eentr\u2011o zi, ai s\u0103 reu\u015fe\u015fti s\u0103 le invi\u0163i pe fiic\u0103\u2011ta cea mare, care e m\u0103ritat\u0103 \u015fi tr\u0103ie\u015fte \u00een Bucure\u015fti, \u015fi pe fiic\u0103\u2011ta cea mic\u0103, care e student\u0103 la Politehnic\u0103, s\u0103 le invi\u0163i la o cafea, undeva \u00een ora\u015f, ca s\u0103 se cunoasc\u0103, doar sunt surori dup\u0103 tat\u0103? Cum po\u0163i s\u0103\u2011\u0163i imaginezi c\u0103 ai s\u0103 faci asta c\u00e2nd: a) habar n\u2011ai Bucure\u015ftiul, de\u015fi te\u2011am invitat de nenum\u0103rate ori s\u0103\u2011\u0163i ar\u0103t capitala \u0163\u0103rii; b) nici una nu vrea s\u0103 aud\u0103 de tine pentru c\u0103 ai fost un tat\u0103 jalnic \u015fi nesim\u0163it; c) nici una nu\u2011\u0163i r\u0103spunde la mesaje \u015fi la apeluri, de\u015fi lu\u2019 aia mare i\u2011ai cump\u0103rat un frigider din pensia ta \u015fi o lun\u0103 ai f\u0103cut foamea, iar \u0103leia mici \u00eei trimi\u0163i lunar o mie de lei, bine c\u0103 ai m\u0103car contul ei bancar. Tu \u00eenc\u0103 mai speri c\u0103 fetele tale se vor \u00eentoarce la tine? Nici la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntarea ta nu vor veni, pentru c\u0103 te dispre\u0163uiesc, te ur\u0103sc \u015fi te\u2011au rejectat din vie\u0163ile lor. Rejectatule! Nici eu nu voi veni s\u0103 te v\u0103d \u00een patru sc\u00e2nduri, pentru c\u0103, a\u015fa cum \u00ee\u0163i spuneam, tu ai s\u0103 ne \u00eengropi pe to\u0163i, \u015fi pe mine, \u015fi pe Burtosul, \u015fi pe Viermele de la Gala\u0163i. Nu te mai sun\u0103 nimeni, am\u0103r\u00e2tule, pentru c\u0103 n\u2011ai nicio idee…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u00ee\u0163i place s\u0103 joci rolul de victim\u0103. Tu ai fost generos, ceilal\u0163i te\u2011au marginalizat. Tu ai fost \u00een\u0163eleg\u0103tor, ceilal\u0163i te\u2011au chinuit. Tu ai fost bun, ceilal\u0163i au fost r\u0103i. Be\u0163ivanule, cum ai putut s\u0103\u2011i spui Burtosului c\u0103 a fost turn\u0103tor la Securitate? Adic\u0103, dup\u0103 30 de ani de prietenie, dup\u0103 ce a\u0163i locuit timp de un an de zile \u00een acela\u015fi apartament de dou\u0103 camere al p\u0103rin\u0163ilor s\u0103i \u015fi v\u2011a\u0163i mirosit ciorapii \u015fi a\u0163i schimbat paturile cu para\u015futele ag\u0103\u0163ate pe strad\u0103, dup\u0103 at\u00e2ta amar de vreme, asta ai avut s\u0103\u2011i spui: c\u0103 \u00eel b\u0103nuie\u015fti c\u0103 a turnat la Securitate? Imbecilule! Eu \u0163i\u2011a\u015f fi tras doi pumni \u00een bot, ca s\u0103 te doar\u0103, s\u0103 te doar\u0103, Degeneratule! N\u2011ai nicio dovad\u0103 c\u0103 prietenul nostru, care a muncit, a f\u0103cut dou\u0103 facult\u0103\u0163i \u015fi a ajuns mare \u00een Televiziunea Rom\u00e2n\u0103, a colaborat cu Securitatea. Ce \u0163i s\u2011a n\u0103z\u0103rit s\u0103 inventezi c\u0103 bietul nostru Burtos, care a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at o via\u0163\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 \u015fi a tras ca un cat\u00e2r, a fost turn\u0103tor la Securitate? Bine face c\u0103 nu\u2011\u0163i r\u0103spunde la mesajele tare pl\u00e2ng\u0103cioase, cer\u00e2ndu\u2011i iertare, a\u015fa cum bine fac \u015fi fiicele tale! Numai Viermele \u00ee\u0163i r\u0103spunde la telefon, c\u00e2nd nu e destul de beat, dar ce ghinion ai, Degeneratule, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00een\u0163elegi ce\u2011\u0163i spune fiindc\u0103 i se \u00eempletice\u015fte limba\u2011n gur\u0103 de at\u00e2ta vodc\u0103 pe care \u015fi\u2011a turnat\u2011o pe g\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Auzi, idiotule? M\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103, \u015fi aici cred c\u0103 \u00eemi dai dreptate, mai avem pu\u0163in de tr\u0103it. Cinci, zece ani, poate mai pu\u0163in. De la 60 de ani \u00een sus, se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla orice: un AVC, o paralizie, un cancer galopant, uit\u0103\u2011te la p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u015fi bunicii no\u015ftri. De la 60 \u00eencep crizele. Totu\u015fi, ne place s\u0103 credem \u015fi ne am\u0103gim ca ni\u015fte pro\u015fti c\u0103 mai avem mult de tr\u0103it. Nu! Moartea chiar s\u2011a pus la p\u00e2nd\u0103 pe vie\u0163ile noastre… Spun prostii? Tu n\u2011ai voie s\u0103\u2011mi spui c\u0103 spun prostii. Prost e\u015fti tu c\u0103 nu m\u0103 ascul\u0163i! Vreau s\u0103\u2011\u0163i spun c\u0103, dac\u0103 e\u015fti atent, de\u015fi am tr\u0103it destul, noi habar n\u2011avem ce\u2011am tr\u0103it, prin ce\u2011am trecut, an dup\u0103 an, la scara istoriei umanit\u0103\u0163ii. Habar n\u2011avem!… M\u0103n\u00e2nc rahat? Taci! Idiotule, tu n\u2011ai voie s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci rahat c\u00e2nd vorbesc eu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ascult\u0103\u2011m\u0103! \u00ce\u0163i dau o idee, este gratis, nu te cost\u0103 nimic. Du\u2011te la biblioteca jude\u0163ean\u0103 din ora\u015ful t\u0103u din fundul Olteniei \u015fi apuc\u0103\u2011te de citit. Istorie. Asta trebuie s\u0103 cite\u015fti: istoria \u0163\u0103rii noastre, istoria Europei, a Americii, istoria lumii. Nu r\u00e2de, fraiere! Eu te\u2011am f\u0103cut om pentru c\u0103 \u0163i\u2011am d\u0103ruit prietenia mea. Eu te fac om cult, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dau idei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cite\u015fte c\u0103r\u0163i de istorie la bibliotec\u0103! Ca s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi ceva din lumea asta \u00een care ai tr\u0103it. Ca s\u0103\u2011\u0163i par\u0103 r\u0103u cu adev\u0103rat, pe bune \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 ipocrizie, c\u0103 ai s\u2011o p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fti c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i va veni ceasul s\u0103 te duci. Lumea e frumoas\u0103. Via\u0163a e frumoas\u0103… Banalit\u0103\u0163i? Eu \u00ee\u0163i spun banalit\u0103\u0163i? Eu…? Du\u2011te \u015fi vorbe\u015fte cu Viermele \u0103la be\u0163iv! Dar vezi c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi \u0103la \u00eei cite\u015fte pe clasicii greci, nu\u2011i prost, \u015ftie c\u0103 grecii din Antichitate au scris totul \u015fi c\u0103 noi, \u0103\u015ftia, care am venit dup\u0103 ei, n\u2011am f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103 repet\u0103m ce\u2011au g\u00e2ndit \u015fi ce\u2011au scris. Viermele \u015ftie mai multe dec\u00e2t mine, pentru c\u0103 \u00eei cite\u015fte pe vechii greci, acum, c\u00e2nd a ie\u015fit \u015fi el la pensie, un vierme de\u015ftept!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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